In the early hours of Monday the 16th April 2006, my best friend's dear mum Valerie passed away after a long fight against cancer. There are no words to express the heartbreak of seeing her fight till the very end and of her family's loss and sadness. She was one of the most brave and courageous persons I have ever known.
I can only imagine the pain her immediate family must be feeling but it breaks my heart knowing how much Valerie's passing will leave them with such an aching gap, as she was such a loving, lively and vivacious part of their lives. As Helen's best friend of 14 years, I have also known Valerie for this time, and she treated me like a 4th daughter making me part of their family as if I were her own flesh and blood. I miss her terribly and am priveledged to have been there for her throughout and right til the end.
I love you Valerie and wherever you are, I know you are no longer suffering or in pain. You will be missed by everyone whose lives you touched and the world is a quieter place without you in it. I am proud to have been part of your life, to have shared the fun and laughter of Christmases and family gatherings, to have eaten your marvellous dinners and sampled your fabulous cakes. I was honoured to participate with you in two Races For Life. Both those occasions were a testament to your brave manner in which you dealt with this disease. And finally I am so glad you got to see your 60th birthday party a month ago, as that day was so special and the laughter and love that was shared on that wonderful occasion is how I will remember you most. You were so full of fun and I know you thoroughly loved your big surprise and special day.
I hope you know that your family will always be my family too.
Sleep well mum #2, I will miss you and love you always.
S x
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