Flora's Philosophy

Flora's spread is a useful tool for my ongoing memory loss! I thought if I can jot down my random ramblings, I can finally unravel the mystery goings on inside my head!! Plus if I can download those little thoughts that crop up now and again that are instantly forgotten the next day, then maybe I will stop cursing when I can't remember anything! Now what was my password again?? ...Bugger!!

Monday, December 19, 2005

Maddy Update - 3 weeks after op (19.12.05)


Cheeky chops is well on the mend! So much so that tomorrow she will be allowed out of her one room confinement to have the run of the house again. This morning was a total farce trying to get her back in the spare room when I had to leave for work. It was a case of "Catch me if you can" with a michievious look in her eyes!

The vet is pleased with her progress too. She is back to being playful for the first time in ages which is a good sign. Only problem is that she wants to play at my bedtime! At least her fur is growing back although she grooms constantly as both pictures show. She won't be going outside yet though! One step at a time and she has plenty of healing yet to go!!

"I'm a LAYDEE..."



Enjoy!
Sx

Fire at Hemel Hempstead (Sunday 11th Dec 2005)


Was out and about taking pictures on this Sunday so took a drive over towards Hemel Hempstead on the A41 to see if I could see the big fire at Buncefield Oil Depot. I didn't think I'd be able to but these pictures show the distance you could see it. Once you got to the M25/A41 junction the air was thick with grey smoke. It happened on a beautiful winters day too.


This other picture was taken near dusk from the RSPCA Quainton car park. Showed a lovely view (smoke free as wind was blowing smoke in opp direction). Plus it gave me a chance to try out my new camera!

Enjoy x

Friday, December 02, 2005

Shaved...erm...'Kitty' :O)


Maddy is home (again) after her op and is shaved on one side. Poor little thing is never going to grow a fur coat at this rate! She is doing well and already michievious and wanting out her cage. A sure sign she is feeling better! She isn't going to like me keeping her confined for so long!

Off today with the lurg so have kept her company (she's allowed out when I'm here as long as she sits still) but Monday will be back to Prisoner Cell Block 'M'

Still... it's good to have her home!

Sx

Saturday, November 26, 2005

Maddy "8½ lives" Update (Sat 27th Nov 2005)

Turns out my little monkey isn't quite out of the wars yet and still has quite a bit of recovery time to go. On the routine follow up check at the vets on Friday (yesterday), the vet has discovered she has a broken shoulder blade (scapula). It wasn't picked up on her original x-rays because it was the lower chest and pelvis area they were more concerned about.

So... Maddy has to have another x-ray on Monday to assess the damage, and will need an operation to pin her back together again, either with wires or metal plates. I will have a wee bionic kitty cat :O(

The poor litle mite has been ever so good this week and hasn't appeared to be in any pain other than limping and favouring her good front leg. The back ones seem okay. I thought it was odd that she looked lopsided when she sat up but just thought it was because her muscles were sore where she was bruised. The vet had a good poke and prod yesterday and bless her, Maddy never flinched at all. Leone the vet said she could hear crunching and reckons her shoulder blade has snapped and is lying in a weird position. She said it's a really unusual injury to have without more damage elsewhere. At least they have found out the problem sooner rather than later and hopefully can get her treatment underway soon. It will most likely mean after the op that she'll need to be 'caged' for a while to prevent movement.

So that's my news on Maddy... will update when I know more. Lots of TLC from now on

Sx

Monday, November 21, 2005

Maddy "8½ lives" is back home!



Had a big scare this weekend when my little friend of 2 months, Maddy was hit by a car on Saturday. It's weird how in tune I have gotten to her ways after only two months. I knew something was wrong on Saturday even before I found her.

Was a usual weekend morning, except for the fact I'd gotten up early to do some DIY work. Usual get-up time is much later! She was climbing on my head at around 6.30am wanting food so I fed her and went back to bed til about 8am. When I awoke she was by my feet fast asleep. As soon as I got up, so did she. She had her mad hour downstairs whilst I was tidying up. She went out briefly but came in as it was FREEZING this weekend. I eventually went up to shower at about 11.30 and I heard the cat flap door rattle shortly afterwards, so just assumed she gone out to 'do her business'. I got ready and pottered about till around 2.30pm when I was due to be picked up to go out. I thought it was unusual that she'd been out so long so I went to check outside. (She has a bad habit of jumping up onto the front porch roof and getting stuck). Looked and couldn't see her... Then I heard the pitiful 'yowl' of pain. I couldn't see her to begin with but when I eventually did, I knew instantly something was badly wrong.

She was huddled behind the wheelie bin, but lying at such a strange angle that immediately my heart started hammering. "Oh God her back is broken" was my first thought. She tried to get up and her back legs were useless. I picked her up, carried her inside and frantically phoned the vets. Why is it that when you need an emergency number, you get about 3 answerphone messages telling you to ring such and such! My hands were shaking but I eventually got through. Rushed her to the Cambridge Street Vets in Aylesbury. (Absolutely BRILLIANT staff there - can't thank them enough for what they did for Maddy, and Minky in the past). It looked grim but Leone the vet said she would let her rest to start with and treat her for shock. That meant fluids, pain relief and rest. On Sunday they would assess her injuries.

Sat was a haze. I was thinking the worst news all day as she'd looked so limp and ragged when I found her. Didn't sleep much Sat night and was up the crack of dawn on Sunday. When I got the phonecall to say she was only bruised, and had no broken bones, I was SO relieved. HOW, I don't know! She must be a tough cookie. She stayed in the vets Sunday night too and today I picked her up. She's finally home again and resting in a familiar place. She is one lucky kitty to have survived as she has certainly had the stuffing knocked out of her. I've got to keep her in till she's fully recovered. My neighbours and I are going to start petitioning for traffic calming around here as the idiots who use this as a rat run are the ones responsible for her RTA I'm sure. The fact it was icy at the weekend too, well the bl**dy fools should know better than to drive so fast in those conditions. How long before it's a human life that is injured or fatally lost??!

I'm now sat with her in my spare room at the mo as she isn't allowed the full run of the house until she's stronger. Bless her she looks really wobbly, like she's drunk almost. She shook her head earlier and fell over. Her little legs are barely holding her up but at least she is semi standing now. It was terrifying on Sat when I saw her as she looked paralysed. I think I found her literally about 30 mins after it happened. Any longer and she probably would have frozen as I doubt I'd have found her in the dark and freezing fog. It's weird to think a few hours before it happened on Sat, she was leaping from sofa to sofa in my front room having a mad half hour. I hope she does that again when she's better.

Anyway, she will be getting lots of TLC from now on! Someone up there answered my prayers - S x

Friday, November 11, 2005

No more SFU & other random rambles!


Forgot to say... the final episode of the final series (boo hoo) of Six Feet Under aired last Tuesday in the UK. I am not ashamed to admit that I bawled like a big girl all the way through it. What a fantastic, comedic, touching and sad ending. Loved the end reel with the glimpse into the future of all the Fishers and Co. Each one of their future 'deaths' was brilliantly done. The song at the end of the show was nice too (Breathe Me - by Sia). Thank you HBO!

I have loved this show from beginning to end. The acting and writing has been consistently superb throughout and I will miss it. Every now and again a TV programme comes along that just blows you away. For me it's SFU and ER every time. Brilliant, brilliant, brilliant!

http://www.hbo.com/sixfeetunder/

Also hot at the moment:

HOT:

LOST (Sawyer - yum yum, fit as...)
The 4400 on Sky One
Nip Tuck

Looking forward to:

ER
Rescue Me (with Dennis Leary)
Desperate Housewives

Saw a brilliant ad on TV

The EGG card Guinea Pig advert - very funny and the music is so Tomorrow's World from the Seventies. Check it out here: http://www.visit4info.com/details.cfm?adid=26574
(You'll need Quicktime)

Sh*te adverts on TV
Anything where you 'consolidate' your finances.
STOP BORROWING MORE MONEY AND STOP SPENDING!!!
Then you won't be in debt... stupid!

That stupid Specsavers ad where the girl gets stroppy at her mum for wearing contact lenses?? What on earth is that about?

Those Burger King "Only One Niney Niner" ads. I end up humming them all bloody day if I hear one. Arrgggh!

Funniest thing I've heard in ages

Yvette Fielding on Chris Moyles Podcasts. Very very funny! If you watch 'Most Haunted' you will see what I mean. I was laughing like an idiot whilst listening on my headphones at work!
www.bbc.co.uk/radio1

Archive Podcast downloads for Moyles at
http://chrismoyles.co.uk/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=10312

Mistral Hotel Dinner Dance Reunion - Nov 2005


It's the Mistral Hotel Dinner dance reunion this weekend in Milton Keynes. Unfortunately I cannot make it as funds are low at present plus am working extra hours.

So, on the off chance any of you might ever browse my blog (in boredom one day!) I would like to say a few hellos. Firstly though, hope you have/had a fabulous time. I'm sure there were plenty of drinks flowing.

Right, hello and thank you to Vassilis ( & family), Kim, Nori, Jo, Adonis and Tracey. Thank you for all your hard work and efforts in June when I visited. I had a fab holiday which was a long time coming. Enjoy your winter break... and the skiing Jo & Nori! Love to you all (and Dolly if she is still padding about).

Hello to holiday pals: Rosie DB, Gill, Helen O, Una, Chris D, Hilary, Sue N, Scottish Anne, Chris W, Linda N, and all the other wonderful, friendly faces I met. Hope you are all well.

Wish I was still sat by the pool with my chilled drink, and it was 28°C in the shade and sunny! Best wishes... x

Monday, October 24, 2005

Online dating... It's a scary world out there!

I've decided to venture into the world of Online dating again. This time I have gone for a fairly reputable Singles website that has been showing advertisements of late (no names mentioned). First impressions are not great. Don't get me wrong, there are some great looking, great personalities, seemingly nice guys out there, but a match? I have to say I'm still sceptical. Plus it's bl**dy expensive to be single these days! Some bigwig is looking at the singles market and rubbing his hands with glee!

Being a singleton, I am aware of how difficult it is to actually meet someone you like or feel a spark with. I feel these 'singles' sites (of which there are many) almost make people too picky. I am just as guilty of this I suppose. You have this security blanket of being sat in your own home, hiding behind your email until someone actually responds to you. Unfortunately a lot of people go by the cover and not the contents. Or they are not willing to take a gamble and are quick to fire back the 'not interested' email.

I first ventured into Online dating back in 2001. Met a few people 'virtually' and made one very good friend of whom I still keep in touch with (sporadically - apologies Rich if you read this). What I get annoyed at is myself! How I actually get a pang of disappointment when I don't get a reply (even a courtesy one to say thanks but no thanks) or I get a web generated "Not Interested" which means they couldn't even be arsed to email. You get the impression, someone has looked at your profile and felt distain that you dared bother contact them.

When you DO get a reply, some of the time it's someone who clearly hasn't bothered to read your "What I'm Looking For" preferences. Admittedly, you can have a ballpark area in things such as age but it's when you get ones that are blatantly 20 years younger/older than you ask for, or live in Timbucktu when you've asked for a 20 mile radius around where you actually live.
I will keep trying. I have only signed up for a month of this one. Granted, the matches they recommend ARE within my criteria but so far not one I've shown an interest in has bothered to contact me. Doesn't do wonders for the confidence I can tell you. I'm starting to believe the web is partly responsible for this singleton culture because we are all hidden away browsing profiles from behind our keyboards and PC's!

I long to live in an era where human interaction was still the only way of meeting people. Aha... I hear you cry, but it is. You try meeting Mr Right in a crowded pub where the jukebox is at tinitus level. Clubs....forget it! Also when all your friends are couples, it's hard to actually meet another singleton because you tend to do things as a group. Maybe I should go back to tmy parents era where you'd meet people at dances, trips out...

There's only one thing left to try.... Speed Dating!

Will update with a progress report soon :O)
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Sites I've used:-

www.match.com
www.udate.co.uk
http://www.friendsreunited.co.uk

Wednesday, October 19, 2005

Mischief reigns supreme... the joys of Kitten-hood!


Maddy has settled in a treat and I've now had her for 4 weeks. She is due her second jab on Fri then Operation "Go Outside" can commence. In the meantime, my birthday came and went and Maddy had endless fun with the tissue paper from one of my presents. Her routine now goes something like this:
  • Midnight > 5am = Sleep
  • 5am > 8.30am = Mental moments (includes running up and down stairs, under bed, on bed, on windowsill - repeat as necessary)
  • During day = Sleep with mental intermissions whilst I'm at work
  • 5.30pm > 7pm = Eat (really fast) /Mental moments to greet me on return from work
  • 7pm > Midnight = Sleepy/Mental/Sleepy/Mental (in roughly that order)*

* Mental includes nibbling my toes as I get into bed. She likes that game

All in all, she is great fun and I love having her around. She is a right little mischief and suits the name Maddy perfectly because she is indeed "Mad".

Tuesday, September 27, 2005

Introducing Maddy...


I picked up a new furry friend this weekend from the RSPCA shelter in Quainton, Bucks. I found Maddy the previous Tuesday when I'd gone down there on a half day's flexitime. I was feeling a bit low having just lost Minky so I thought I'd go and make some enquiries. The first little cat I came across was Maddy. She was sat in pod number 1 with the biggest green eyes staring back at me. She looks very similar to Minky so perhaps that's why I was drawn to her but once I was allowed in to her cage to see her, she was so affectionate and playful that I knew she was the one I wanted.

Since coming home she has settled in remarkably quickly and walks round the house as if she has been here ages. She used her sleeping baskets straight away and she's even mastered the litter training (with a bit of persuasion to start with).

Turns out she is younger that I originally first thought (about 7 or 8 months old) so she still displays very kitten-like qualities. She has her mad moments when she runs around the front room after toys and then curls up in a ball fast asleep. She already knows where her food cupboard is and is VERY vocal when its feeding time. She is like a 'meer' cat at dinner time as she virtually stands on her two back legs trying to get to the bowl!

All in all, she has filled the gap that Minky left. I will never forget Minky as she was my first cat, one who was so affectionate and who I loved very much. It was heartbreaking to lose her and it left the house (and me) feeling empty. I couldn't continue like that as I was missing her company. So, I adopted Maddy to give another little cat a second chance, and to have a little welcoming face to come to again. She has already done so many cheeky antics that you can't help but smile. I know I am going to love having her around and hopefully she will feel the same.

Saturday, September 17, 2005

RIP Minky - In memoriam of my little friend



On Saturday 17.09.05 I had the incredibly hard decision to have my little cat Minky put to sleep. Due to failing health and her age catching up with her, it was the kindest choice. I had only had her for two and a half years but she was an old lady from the Cats Protection League so I had no idea of her age. I estimated at about 15 years +

She had been on treatment for about a year for a thyroid condition but this week she developed breathing problems and it was a losing battle as she was going downhill rapidly. It was heartbreaking seeing her go to sleep but I know she isn't suffering anymore. I keep finding myself near to tears and there are reminders of her everywhere. I spent her last night on the sofa with her and gave her cuddles til the end.

In the time I had her, she was the most affectionate, funny, sweet and regal little friend a person could have and I know I gave her a good life in her latter years. Minky used to belong to a neighbour, having originally come from a rescue home. The first time I ever saw her she was sat in my car parking space and wouldn't budge. In the end I had to get out of the car and move her. She was terribly thin and I thought she was a stray. I fed her that day and she wolfed a bowl of Whiskas down like she hadn't eaten for days. Every day for a few months she would be at my front door the feeding pattern continued. I had wanted a cat for some time and didn't have the heart to turn her away. Eventually I found out in June 2002 that she was my neighbours cat. As it turned out, Minky didn't get on with my neighbours other cat Max and refused to go in her own house, thus she wasn't eating. When my neighbour realised where Minky had been all that time, she asked me if I would like to have her, as she looked much more content in my house and seemed a different cat to the one she had brought home from the shelter. So in a way, Minky adopted me too.

Once she had settled in (which didn't take long), she used to wait by the front gate for me to come home and greet me vocally with squeaks and miaows. She had a knack of timing it to the exact minute my car pulled up. Her favourite spot was to lie hugging the back of the sofa. She would purr away and watch the world go by with one eye checking what was going on. Her other favourite place was my bed. Quite often I'd find her curled up or spawled out on my duvet. She was a great alarm clock as she used to jump on my bed anytime after 6am and either paw me or nudge me in the head until I woke up. Her breakfast needed making!! She could be quite inisistent at times, especially if I had a hangover or just wanted a few more minutes kip. Eventually the nudges would turn into gentle nips and then I soon got the hint. When I used to pick her up and cuddle her she would nuzzle into my shoulder and 'knead' with her paws. (Cats do this as they see you as their mum, and that is truly how I felt about her) She would get really purry the more fuss you gave her and would even dribble and give little nips on your chin in cat ecstasy! When she was chilled on the back of the sofa she loved her front paws being played with and would curl her claws around your finger. I used to say that she was holding my hand when she did this. She loved tuna and would miaow enthusiastically the moment the tin was opened.


In the last year my neighours got two young kittens who found her fascinating. As Minky preferred to "Rule the roost" she quite often put them in their place with a well aimed swipe if they got too close (as nosy kittens do) but as the kittens got older they formed a truce Minky tolerated them a bit more. It was quite comical to see them lie in the garden a few feet away from each other, watching each other intently, Minky occasionally giving the evil eye if one of them got too close. I would kid Minky saying she had 2 toy boys.

I miss her terribly but I know in my heart I made the right, although very difficult decision. Saying goodbye to a loved one, is never easy and she was a loved one, one who kept me company and gave me unconditional love in the short time I had her. Wherever she is now, I know that she is sleeping soundly and purring contentedly forever more.

RIP Minky little friend - I will never forget you xxx

Her online memorial is at the link below:
http://www.bluecross.org.uk/web/site/pm_preview.asp?pageid=2349

Wednesday, August 24, 2005

My trip to Portsmouth Historical Naval Dockyard


Spent a lovely day in my week off by nipping down the A3 to Portsmouth. As the sun was shining, I felt like a day by the sea. Plus with all the rememberance of Nelson's 200 year anniversary and 60 years since VE / VJ day, I wanted to see part of where history was made.


I did a boat trip round the harbour and saw some our impressive modern day warships and aircraft carriers. Awesome sight. My dad would have been impressed being ex-Navy himself. Went on HMS Warrior and HMS Victory and saw the tudor ship Mary Rose in it's wax sprayed room where they are keeping it preserved. The £15 you pay to get into the dockyard is great value for money as you get to do about 6 different attractions and the ticket is open ended for a year so if you miss one, you can go again.

Anyway I thoroughly enjoyed my day, I saw some history, the sun shone, I had fish, chips & mushy peas AND a cornish ice cream! Recommended (that's all of the above!)

Hard to believe that the follwing day was wind and gales but thats British weather for you! Still, the sun shone for me and it was nice to be by the sea.

My photos are on the link 'Flora's Pix' - enjoy!

Saturday, August 13, 2005

Can't believe how fast this year is going!


Maybe it's just because the weather has been sh*t of late but it feels almost autumnal at the moment. Even the (somewhat reliable) BBC weather man said the weather had an autumn feel to it. AND IT'S ONLY 13th OF AUGUST!! We should be basking in sunshine! What happened to the summers I had as a kid where the sun was always out, the pavement used to sizzle and the days were long!?

Here's a random cheery pic of my clematis when it was last sunny like AUGUST SHOULD BE!!!

Isn't it guys who can never find the clematis or is that something completely different? :O)


Highlights of my week (in no particular order):

Congratulations to Nationwide for taking 3 months to sort out my mortgage! Finally got completion date on August 16th and started proceedings on May 31st!!

Thank GOD Big Brother is over! I didn't watch it much this year but what I did see was just cringeworthy. I wish the innocent days of the first 2 series would return but everyone that goes on it these days are all freaky wannabes. And don't even get me started on that Makosi... what a conceited piece of work!

New series of LOST. Looks promising. And the lead guy Matthew Fox - "hello"! Yummy! (he was nice in Party of 5)

Sun coming out on Monday and Tuesday! Thank God for flexitime and being able to sunbathe in the afternoon :O)

Justin's 30th birthday and recovering from a stonking hangover! Good night tho...

Discovering Premium Bonds! (I WILL be a millionaire!!)

Looking forward to (again in no particular order):

Some good weather - PLEASE!!!

New and last series of Six Feet Under (my fave show next to ER)

My week off in August.
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What an exciting life I lead...

Monday, August 01, 2005

Where's OUR bleedin summer gone??




It's Monday 1st of August, its grey and dreary outside and its hot EVERYWHERE ELSE IN THE WORLD!!!!

COME ON SUMMER! Come back, come back, where ever you are!

Saturday, July 30, 2005

Rosie's Crete Pix


I have created a personal blog for Rosie's Crete holiday pix. See link on right hand side of page.

Copyright for all of these shots are Rosie's. The colours are fab and I think were taken on a Canon digi camera. Some smaller shots were from a disposable camera but are just as good!

As before, just thought it would be nice to share :O)

Enjoy & thanks Rosie...

Saturday, July 09, 2005

Back to normality??

Well I've survived my first full week back at work after 2 weeks off. Took me a while to get back into the swing of things as right from day one was bombarded with questions re: work! It's been a weird week what with events of euphoria one minute of the Olympic celebrations, to carnage the next with the terrible events of Thursday 7th in London. I know I wasn't the only one frantically emailing, phoning and texting friends or family that live and work in London.

With regards to the days events; it amazed me how calmly and efficiently the emergency services responded to the call. It only seems like yesterday that the general public were slating them for the 'rehearsal' of a terrorist attack they did one quiet morning. Thank God we have some of the best emergency services in the world as without them, I think it would have been even more chaotic than it was. My heart goes out to the hundreds of people who have lost loved ones, been injured or maimed. It was one of those days that you couldn't believe the news that was coming in. As with Sept 11th, what initally appeared to be a tragic accident of a power surge underground soon proved to be horribly wrong. I've been moved to tears by the human spirit people have shown. Whether that be helping their fellow passengers with first aid & comforting them, to taxi drivers giving people a free journey home when it was chaos all around. My prayers go to those who are still missing loved ones, or who have lost loved ones.

London has been a prime target for so long now and it seems to have been the case of not "if it would happen" but "when". And although there will be heartache for those who have lost friends and relatives, people have a steely determination that nothing will deter them from going back to normal. Its as if the people of London have picked themselves up, dusted themselves off and stuck two fingers up to terrorism, saying "you can't stop us you know - life goes on". Call it the Blitz spirit or whatever, it just shows that people as a whole will not bow to the cowardly acts of terrorism.

The day before the attrocities above, the news that we won the Olympic bid was fantastic. I have grown up in London most of my life and although I no longer reside there I still am proud that we finally got the recognition we deserved. I hope the Olympics of 2012 will be a resounding sucess and rejuvenate parts of the city just as the Commonwealth Games did for Manchester. The only depresing thing I found about it, was that I will be nearly 40 when it happens!!

Anyway, in a week of highs and lows, my trivial holiday blues are insignificant. In the Daily Express today a picture of a simple note left with some flowers really moved me and showed a defiance in Thursday's tragic events. It said:

"Yesterday, we fled this great city, but today we are walking back into an even stronger greater city. The people who did this should know they have failed. They have picked the wrong city to pick on.

London will go on"


I think that says it all...

Thursday, June 30, 2005

The wanderer returns...


I have just returned from my hols in Crete and wanted to share what a fabulous time I had. The Mistral experience was just wonderful and the staff were lovely. I met some great people there, saw some beautiful scenery, got a tan, ate loads of Cretan cooking which was just divine - all in all a fabulous time was had and I don't want to be back!

If you are thinking of having a solo holiday experience for whatever reason, I would highly recommend the Mistral Hotel. Its in Maleme on the West side of Crete. Its a small place about 35min drive from the original capital of Crete, Chania. The town of Maleme has a historical part in Crete's history as it was where the German troops landed to invade the island in 1941. The hotel itself is near the very airstrip that German paratroopers landed on and many soldiers of all nationalities lost their lives.


In fact a little way to the back of the hotel is a beautiful cemetary of Peace where many German soldiers are buried. Its a very humbling experience going there, regardless of "who won what" in WW2. Its aim is to promote Peace in our time, something it does very well.

It overlooks the Maleme Airstrip and has a room which explains the history of the place and who fell there. The red carpet of flowers are stunning and the place is so quiet and fitting for what it represents. What is so sad, is the ages of many who fell. 18, 19, 20 year olds. The motto on the wall as you go in says something to the effect of "may this never happen again". How very true.

Outside the Mistral hotel, there are buses (air conditioned, and more like coaches) that run in the direction of Chania (pronounced "Hania") or Kissamos. They are very reasonably priced (1.80 euro for single which about a £1). Platinias is the first larger town en route to Chania and has a large selection of Tavernas and bars if you'd like to venture out. It has a nicer beach than Maleme which is rather shingley and the surf is a bit choppy.

One thing worth a mention is the "Blue Nipple" bar on Maleme beach (not its real name but you'll see what I mean if you go past it). It has one of the most stunning looking Greek men behind the bar - tall, slim, golden and blonde with a fabulous body and a cheeky smile. Worth a visit for his hospitality and complimentary cocktail. His brother isn't bad either, and is a tad more manic. Both are very friendly.

Chania is a pretty little harbour town with quaint little streets selling lots of various goods (leather, ceramic, soaps, olive oil etc) Plenty of nice restaurants and tavernas too. The naval museum is also worth a visit as it tells about the Battle of Crete.

You can take pony rides around the harbour, go on boat trips around the bay and further beyond. I didn't have time to explore thoroughly, plus it was roasting the day I went.

One thing that was an experience was the Chania Bus Station. We asked the ticket booth man and eventually found our bus. If you look and listen, you'll be fine. Be warned, if you need the loo, DON'T use the ones at the bus station as they are pretty grim looking turkish type loos ( a hole in the floor!). Wander further towards the harbour and find some better ones.

The Mistral offers the solo traveller a safe, welcoming environment. I was put at ease after a few hours of being there as the staff make an effort to know your name, smile. Small touches that mean so much. I propped up the bar many a night with new found friends and drank into the wee small hours. I was truly sad to leave and will hopefully return next year. Granted its not the cheapest of holiday's I've had but certainly one of the ones where I've felt very at home. Its that personal touch from the staff and family that make this place different. That along with meeting some great guests, returnees and newbies, made my holiday a real good giggle. Some highlights included the trips on offer with the hotel. These are optional but the ones I went on were:

Fsinfari Fish trip -

A leisurely day out to a beach for a few hours then a Long lunch with a family who are friends with hotel owner Vassilis. They catch your lunch that day or the day before, show you how they prepare it, then bring out dish after dish after dish of delicious food. I'm not a huge fish lover but my motto this holiday was to try new things. And boy am I glad I did. It was lovely to taste traditional Cretan food. All this was served to us on a long table by the seafront. Very Shirley Valentine-esque! We were all stuffed when we rolled back around 3pm but somehow STILL managed another 4 course meal at dinnertime!

Gramvousa Boat Trip -

A large boat takes you from Kissamos to Gramvousa Fortress then onto Balos bay across the way. The journey is about an hour and a bit. You stop at Gramvousa first for a couple of hours. Its your choice whether you can manage the HUGE STEEP climb up the fortress. If yo're fit enough its worthwhile as the view is beautiful.

Then onto Balos Lagoon which is reached by smaller boats docking to our big one. You spend about 2 hours there where you can snorkell in shallow waters or sunbathe. The only thing I'd say is be warned, there isn't much shade.

Horse Riding at Deres -

You are taken to the Deres Riding School high in the hillswhich has beautiful views of the Olive Groves below. The stables are lovely and the horses well looked after. They are safety concious and you do wear decent riding helmets. I've riden before once in Corfu and those horses looked old and parched, plus we had no head gear. You can then choose to ride 1 or 2 hours into the hills and enjoy the views. Its a little nerve wracking on these little sturdy horses but once you get used to it, it's good fun. The place where you go in also serves Cretan food which can be enjoyed on the terrace over looking the views below.

Other trips worth mentioning -

I didn't go on these, but other places are Elafonissi which has a very sandy lagoon and monastery. Samaria Gorge - the longest one in Europe. Knossos - Ancient ruins. Trip to Santorini. Outside the hotel also has a little train company that run various trips in and around the Maleme area to various places of interest.

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All in all I had a fabulous holiday. I would personally recommend anyone who is apprehensive about "going it alone" to save your pennies up and go there. They will make you feel part of their family and you are free to do as little or as much as you want. If you only want to lounge by the pool, thats fine, if you'd like to go wandering, thats fine too. Some people only appeared at dinner times. The drinks are free flowing, food is lovely and the setting is a good base to explore the beautiful surroundings of Crete. Roll on next year!

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